To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/03/20 01:56
Subject: Re: [K-list] over-sensitivity.
From: v
On 2001/03/20 01:56, v posted thus to the K-list:
Mystress Angelique Serpent wrote:
> You did over-react, it is true.. and you know that you do tend to do
> that sometimes, so it is also partly up to your responsibility, to be
> mindful of how your over-reactions may affect people... be sensitive to
> other folks sensitivity, as well as your own.
eh...
he overreacted to both my criticism about the urban myth (sorry Wim), and then
again when I (apparently) *interfered* with whatever he was into about dispersing
humor into the situation with 'Fiona's Mother' respondants. he criticized me
brutally, and - when I defended myself privately to him, posted them publicly,
insensitively.
I even publicly forgave him earlier on today, as you can see, and yet he chose to
attack you, while holding me up as the "nameless and faceless" perpetrator and
"aggressor". He never once admitted to overreacting or owned that he hurt *my*
feelings by his overly-sanctimonious accusations of me, over nothing.
And *I* "overreacted*?
you did the right thing (whatever it was/is).
He's been a real putz in general this past week.
Maybe I could've processed a simplified *nicely* presented, jovial point, rather
than 3 pages of public criticisms and judgements. And he has since been
self-righteous and defensive and unremorseful.
Me - being "over-sensitive"?
I'll try to be careful, but thought I had redeemed myself by forgiving him
unconditionally earlier today. His attack on you was just dumb and silly.
My *k*, just hasn't been jibing with his *j*...
But - I guess i would still forgive him.
> I wrote the post to Simon this morning, moderated him, then slept, then
> posted it. I have un-moderated him again since you are forgiving..
> Now, if you don't mind, my own sensitivity finds this whole thing very
> tiring, and I'm going back to bed.
> Blessings...
I will defend you as being very benevolant, under the circumstances. And I am very
tired too!
Bon Zzzzzzzzzzzzzz...
Blessed Be! in general,
valerie
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