To: K-list
Recieved: 2000/05/26 11:38
Subject: Re: [K-list] tears
From: Ckress
On 2000/05/26 11:38, Ckress posted thus to the K-list:
In a message dated 05/26/2000 9:33:38 AM Pacific Daylight Time,
euph77ATnospammrstoast.com writes:
<<
el, it may very well be strange...wouldn't be the first time.
crying as a child was not really accepted by my parents..i can't say
why..i'm just saying how it was for me. i learned from an early age to
associate tears with something bad....
i had an ex..much like susan's it sounds, who got really angry when i cried,
which of course, made me cry more...so i would almost implode with unshed
tears.>>
Dear Melissa,
I was punished (spanked, slapped, ridiculed, threatened, etc.) as a child for
any exuberant display of emotion, and always for anger or tears, so I
understand what you're saying. But my nature is so feeling/emotion oriented
that it didn't shut down in me, I just learned to be very careful in letting
anyone see me cry. I'm still careful about that, even if they are tears of
joy. I've learned that only people with very open hearts can be trusted to
witness the holiness of my tears.
El
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