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To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/03/06 05:22
Subject: Re: [K-list] relationships
From: Charles Vermont

On 1999/03/06 05:22, Charles Vermont posted thus to the K-list:

Bodacia wrote: 'if someone(woman,man or whatever) is abused I think it wise to point out that the flaw is with the abuser...and not the other way around.' Then she rounded on Pat and wrote 'Your message was offensive and inaccurate in many ways...mebbie you need to educate yourself before giving advise on such a vital subject'.

I'm pleased to say I have come across only a few men and women in my life who seem to want me to abuse them. I personally prefer loving relationships so I have run away from them as quickly as I can. Thinking back over these experiences, however, it is almost as though these people wanted me to validate their own view of themselves as worthless. I'm aware that at least one of them was abused by her father, and in a strange way I believe she was 'comfortable' with an abusive relationship, however unpleasant it was for her. At least she was familiar with how they worked, and was confident she could handle it.

I believe it takes two to tango, and always has.

Charles Vermont

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