To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/12/20 10:02
Subject: Re: [K-list] Re: Suffering as illusion?
From: Zarko Kecman
On 1999/12/20 10:02, Zarko Kecman posted thus to the K-list:
>This may not relate to Zarko's situation at all, but I know it's not
uncommon
>when the psyche is subjected to inescapable horror and brutality for the
>emotions to go numb. This can be an essential defense for both mental
sanity
>and physical survival of such ordeals. But this isn't the same as "no
>suffering." The psyche registers and stores the suffering which eventually
>erupts, sometimes years later, in emotional breakdown
In last post I was told to you that in my examining of unconsciousness I was
found that horror deep inside. It's take a lot of time and meditation to
clean that. Yes, you are absolutely right. You don't know how you are right.
People and solders of war need to communicate those experiences.
They need a good attention, like you people are. From my point of view,
there is no need for psycho therapy. Just, very good attention. For most
of them. I have some of my friends from war, which are just gets mad.
But only because they keep this inside. It is not hard to handle that
horror.
Man is capable to experience a lot of bad things. But when you can't
let this out, there is trouble. Now, the corridor for these experiences is
you El, or Wim or anyone who can make a good attention, to listen
people's story. To take good attention. With compassion and a lot of
understanding. Not even understanding, just to try to understand.
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